I think one of the topics that use to come up during our Sex Toy Parties with Women was the question about how many people actually bring sex toys into their relationships. 

In famous books and TV shows, Sex Toy Use are portrayed as a Solo Female Practice. 

But over the past few years, I have personally noticed that so many couples use sex toys during their sex sessions with their partner.

I think the change has been long over due because sex toys were portrayed in earlier years as penis replicas but in today’s market, sex toys have changed in design and technique. 

More and more couples love using sex toys.  They are a chance to ‘add some spice to your sex life.’  Sex toys are just that: Toys for Adults, and toys are designed for fun and play. 

I’m glad that they have changed to be more Couple Friendly.

So this article is just about some Hetro-Sexual Couple Sex Toy Techniques and some ideas that I have learnt, heard and experimented over the past few years.

Well the most common of Couple Toys have always been the Vibrating Cock Ring, which the man wears and then the bullet vibrates against the woman’s clitoris.   This product has come a long way since the original version had this huge tight ring for the guy to wear with a huge egg, cords, and controller.  It was quite the unit. 

But today, we have smaller cordless bullets with kick & power and silicone stretchy cock rings that don’t pull the penis skin.  When we started our company the Holster and Bullet were one of the most popular items, which still is, but the Cock Ring has changed into more advanced versions like the Double Blue Cock Ring which one ring goes around the balls and the other around the base of the penis.  

I still sell a ton of the Black Holster with the Cordless Bullet, as this item is a fantastic beginner combination for couples that are just starting to use sex toys together.  The Black Holster is very stretchy, designed out of silicone so it doesn’t pull the hair around the penis or balls and not tight like a regular cock ring.  Also the bullet sits horizontal so the vibration of the bullet does vibrates against your bladder, which can be very uncomfortable for either person. 

I still see the Rocking Rabbit and Diving Dolphin around, but from my personal opinion these units are very tight, (I like rings that are a bit stretchy) and they are huge units. 

Also personally I don’t find that it is sexy for a man to wear an animal figure on his cock.  It doesn’t really turn me on. 

For clients that have tried and experimented with the Holster and Bullet, I personally think that the Double Blue Cock Ring with Bullet is definitely a more advanced version.  I personally find that putting the ring on the guy can be challenging but it does keep the cock ring in place and keeps the penis more erect during sex.   The Double Blue Cock Ring is still designed out of silicone but just not as stretchy as the Holsters but definitely a more advanced version of the Vibrating Cock Ring.  

To many of my clients, I have always described using the Vibrating Cock Ring when the woman is on top and the vibration can rub against the clitoris, which is fantastic, but you can also use Vibrating Cock Rings in any position, including the missionary position, so the possibilities are quite endless.  Personally I think that when you are using a Vibrating Cock Ring together, half the fun is experimenting on your own together in finding what works best for the two of you. 

So many clients purchase our Bullet with a Cord and this item can ‘kick ass’ when used together.  The Bullet with a Cord can be fantastic to use inside you either vaginal or anal, as with the cord, the unit can be easily removed when needed. 

****(Never use the Cordless Bullet inside the body, as there is no safety way to remove the item.  Now when recommending to use a product inside the body, remember that these items are novelties and there they are to be used at your own risk.  All sex toys are novelties only.  The only item safe for internal use are condoms which are regulated by FDA therefore, I have always recommended to place a condom over your sex toys for internal use.)  ****

I personally have tried a Corded Bullet inside the vagina during penetration.  Wow, the vibration is deep inside, sometime high up in the vagina up at the cervix.   And then I also have tried the Corded Bullet in the anus, which can be a lot of fun. 

And then you can be very creative and use a Controller with a Splitter cord and two bullets, with one bullet in the anus and the other in the vagina or in a Vibrating Cock Ring.  The possibilities are endless, so be creative.  Which are what sex toys are all about.

One of the reasons why I wanted to write this article in particular is because of something new that I experimented with: which is using an internal vibrator, a straight vibrator inside the vagina and then vaginal penetration at the same time.  Like Double Penetration which you see in Porn videos but just with one real penis.  Very interesting technique, and can be a lot of fun in figuring out what style of vibrator works for you.  So we tried the Rabbit with the rotating beads and the clitoris unit, which was okay as you can use the Rabbit part as a handle and the shaft with the rotating unit is placed inside the vagina and then the man penetrates you vaginally.  However personally, the Rabbits have a good size girth to them and it was very tight and also the beads kept starting and stopping, so I definitely recommend you using the Rabbits with the Metal Beads in the Shaft not the Plastic Beads in the Shaft if you try this technique. 

So therefore in experimenting with using a Sex Toy Internal during penetration, I thought of a Slimline Vibrator with a bit of a curve at the tip, like a Slimline Gspot Vibrator.  Why the curve?  So the vibrator stays inside you during penetration.  A straight vibrator will slip out during penetration so you need a bit of a curve.  Also personally, I liked the Slimline version, but some clients might like extra girth. 

Definitely different experience, very intense for me and for him.  But once again the experimenting is trying different sex toys & techniques between you and your partner. 

Which comes to the conclusion that any sex toy can be used for a couple it’s just how creative you two can be together, which is what Sex Toys are all about.

Once again, this is just my opinion so you should develop your own.  Enjoy.

If you are interested in purchasing any of the products discussed here, please visit Toyz For Couples: www.toyzforsex.com

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