Remember that Seinfeld episode, where the four of them talk about men and sex, no man says no to just sex, unless they really don’t want to be with you.
Even if the guy is tired and exhausted, men will always been willing and able to have sex.
So when they call and say that they can’t make it, you know where you stand, and that is they don’t want to be with you, so move on.
Honestly why can’t people just say the truth which is, they are NOT ‘into’ you. It is not like me not to be burned and dumped by many of people who are just not ‘into’ me. Hell, there are a ton of people I just don’t like in a sexual way, no problem, I just don’t sleep with them.
There is nothing wrong with not wanting to have sex with someone, it is just wrong that they are not honest about it.
