In today's world of negative words why does something that is suppose to be enjoyable called a JOB???  Who created that name?

The word "Job" for women is very negative, so maybe it is time to change the term.

But the really reason why I am writing this article about the Blow Job.

For the past 9 years, I have been doing Adult Novelty Parties here in Vancouver, BC, Canada, and this is the one topic that is always discussed, and the silence in the room when I talk about technique in the Art of Giving a Blow Job never surprises me.

So now this is the article have have always wanted to write about the Blow Job.

First, get the term JOB out of your bed, because if you think that the act is a job, then the act itself will not be enjoyable.

Ladies, rule number one and the most important rule about giving a Blow Job is:  BE COMFORTABLE!!!!

When I write the word, COMFORTABLE, what I mean is make sure you are in a comfortable position.  If you are on your knees or your neck bent, then you will NOT enjoy the experience and then you are making a Job of this 'giving act of love'.

So remember, always ensure that your neck and spine is straight and long-gated, and shoulder back.  If you neck and spine are not properly aligned then what is the reason why you might have the "gag effect' or "pain in the neck".  The most comfortable you are the more you are willing to give and enjoy the Blow Job.

A little secret that I teach women at the parties is that Adult Novelty Companies try to sell these creams, lotions, gels etc for Giving Good Head and honestly all the products need to be individually read for ingredients as many of the products are full of chemicals. 

Therefore always read your ingredients!!!  Now all the gels, cream etc, usually work like mints or peppermints do which works the front of the mouth.  Therefore when giving a Blow Job you feel a mint tingly sensation in the front of your mouth and the guy feels the tingle on the tip and head of his penis.  This is great if that is what you want everything in the front of the mouth and the tip of his penis. 

However many of my clients want the feeling at the back of the throat, to help take the penis shaft farther in the mouth and relieve the tension in the back of the throat.   To achieve the tingly feeling in the back of the throat, "Cough Candies" does the trick.  Why Cough Candies, is because they were designed to open the back of the throat, therefore you can take the shaft of the penis further.

Since I live in the "Pot Capital" of North America, consistent Pot Users suck on Cough Candies as it relieves "Dry Mouth" which once again works really well for Blow Jobs as it gives you the constant Moist mouth you need for giving a Good Blow Job.

How much Cough Candies and which ones work better, well that is all up to you on the flavours as some people are allergic to certain flavours.  Also you have to experiment with the size you want, personally I like just a small bit, but the fun of trying something new is changing it up so experiment.  Have fun.  

Some people say that Toothpaste works really well for Blow Jobs, yes it does but it is extremely strong in the menthol so be warned for some people it can be extremely strong tingle feeling on the penis.