But is it about the person not the sexual act. The person, you know when it is about the person when you look beyond the basic exterior and see past the eyes and only deep into the soul.

The soul is the one place where the real person is displayed. You can only see into the soul of someone who is your soul mate as access is denied for any one else. It is something you see deep inside the real character. Isn’t that love?

So is there a soul mate for everyone, no, of course not. Some people look at what someone has in basic characteristics as their soul mate but true love has nothing to with that. It just has to do with seeing the real person.

So about me and falling in-love – and I wrote an article about the butterfly feelings, but this is different. Very different. Butterfly feelings is part lust, anticipation for something more, like a hunger of wanting something more.

Love is different; it is a peaceful feeling, of pure acceptance, of your feelings. You have this overwhelming content in your heart. Very few people understand this, as they are always looking for something more or better, than just being honest and true to what you feel.

So now you the readers are saying that’s great I am in love therefore out of the market, no, no, and no, I am not inlove but I think I have an opinion on the matter, but now what you are asking about now is about relationships.

Relationships are so much different than just being in-love. A relationship is very similar to a business plan, where you have so much goals, direction, orientation etc.

Which is quite a bit different than just being in-love. I have commitments, plans, direction and promises that I will never break with the direction of my life; therefore, falling in-love with someone does not automatically mean that you are in a relationship.

Honestly I would blank out refuse a relationship with many individuals, too much drama, different paths of life, but I can you still love that person.

Many people believe that you fall in love, have a relationship then get married and have a future together and those are the steps. No reality doesn’t work that way. People in today’s society have too much efficiency on a relationship.

Hasn’t society figured out that relationships only work if you have the same goals in life? We are too stubborn to change our ways and accept our positive and negative faults at face value, instead of turning them into drama issues.

Hey but that is just my opinion.