Seriously, everyone calls me a bitch in business but when it comes to my personal life and personal issues, I seem to come far from one in the way I treat my relationships and friendships.

Okay it has been awhile since I have written anything on this website, but this is what I want to chat about or rants about.

Okay the last few ‘relationships’ or sexual encounters have been just horror stories about the ex-women in their lives. Complete ‘bitches’

I have heard everything from the lies of who they are with, they don’t want their children near their fathers, taking money, trying to come back and then not come back, playing games, telephoning me at my office and my home, using their children has pawns in their games, and the list goes on and on.

Okay so it made me think, why are women taking such a role in a society that allows women to be equals. Have we as women think that we should ‘dominate’ the man and become ‘super bitches’ Seriously, the last year I have seen and heard some "Jerry Springer episodes’ here in my home town.

I have to wonder why and from someone like me who think so fondly of women makes me wonder what the hell happened to my gender?

So the facts are that women in North America have the luxury of sexual freedom, from self-exploration to sex toys to asking for what we want, but it doesn’t give us the right to use ‘sex as a weapon’. And maybe that is what I am trying to say that too many of us women use ‘sex as a weapon’. It is crazy to think that but that is what is happening. When our men don’t listen or understand us, we decide that sex is off the table. Seriously sex should never be used a bargaining tool for a relationship.

And maybe over the years I too have developed this attitude, it makes me wonder. What happened where sex and relationships were suppose to be fun and exciting. How can we change before the negativity sets in?

Well, first is always be aware of it, society is so up on women’s rights, women freedoms, etc but we need a balance as men have rights and their balance. We are both extremely different creatures, men think very different than women, and that is just a fact. So why should we change the thinking process of either sexes. Therefore all you can do is communicate how you feel and think and if the other person or opposite sex just doesn’t ‘get it’ or understand then why try to change them to make them understand. Just except the fact that ‘shit happens’ and they just might not want to see something our way. And that is okay to disagree.

So instead of getting mad at your guy or he just doesn’t get it, so what he too has a right not to and if you realize that he has too many conflict of decision with you then just move on. Why try to change someone, you need to accept and love him or her just the way they are, no matter what.

Hey but this is just my opinion.