During my years of presenting Sex Toy Parties to my clients and their friends, I have received many questions about organizing a Bachelorette party.  Therefore this section is for you, the organizer of the Bachelorette Party.

So your job is to help organize a Bachelorette Party.  This is a list of ideas and thoughts for you to consider.

First, what type of party and who will be attending:

1.  Going to see the Male Strippers.  We use to have alot of clubs and dates to review to see Male Strippers here in Vancouver; however there are very few nightclubs and bars doing Ladies Nights.  You need to view www.strippernet.com to see the list of clubs in Vancouver, BC that offer Ladies Night.   Good luck on your search.  It can be alot of fun for an evening, if that is what you and your friends want to do.  My company can help you organize 'goody bags' for the guests and the outfit and games for the bride-to-be, please read below or contact me direct.  However if the bride's family will be attending then maybe drinking and partying isn't your 'cup of tea'.

2.  Hiring a Male Stripper to come into your party location, which can be easily done here in Vancouver, BC, Canada via www.strippernet.com  which has pictures of the guys, my favourite and recommendation is Adrian Bryce, he will not disappoint.  However, cost can start at $300 plus and this might be out of the budget.

3.  Having a Sex Toy party.  I do offer Sex Toy parties for Bachorette parties, however, I specialize in the education of sex toys, which with some parties that doesn't work well.  Many bachelorlette parties that I do are very interested in learning about new techniques and understanding sex toys, new ideas about blow jobs and how adding sex toys can spice up a sex life.  If you are interested in more entertaining sex toy parties, with trying on products and lots of laughs please contact me at 604-657-7840 or email: laska@laskamaria.com, as I can always give you other companies for you to review.  The good thing about my parties is that I do not charge for hosting a party or set any minimums. 

4.  Pole Dancing Party.  Here is Vancouver, BC, we recommend Aradia Fitness at www.aradiafitness.com to either come into your home with their removable stage and pole to teach you and all guests the art of pole dance or you can contact them to have a party in their studio.  They have a start price of $400.00 plus for a private pole dancing party, but definitely worth checking into.

5.  Spa Party.  Contact your local Spa in your neighbourhood and see if they offer a special for you and your friends to have a spa experience.  Some places offer beverages and treats and amazing prices.  Also their facility can handle a group better than a In-Home Spa Party.  So look in the Yellow pages for someone close to you. 

6. Hosting a basic party at home.  Well definitely this is one of the more reasonable ideas.  Some ideas are having all the girls come to someone home and play some games and have some fun.  To save of cost, ensure that it is a Potluck and BYOB.  

Planning the Party Ideas

Penis Cake Tin - a great idea, to make a cake in the shape of a penis.  I have seen the most amazing cakes from erected penis cakes, to basic chocolate penis with chocolate sprinkles looking like pubic hair.  I sell Penis Cake Tins for $20.00 plus but if you want to design a version yourself, it is really simple.  First a rectangle pan for the shaft of the penis, and cut out the head and shaft simple.  Then either two small round pans for the two balls or one round pan and split the circle in half for half balls.  Then decorate in whatever colour you want, black, brown, flesh etc and use some brown sprinkles for the public hair.  Simple cake.

Penis Ice Cube Trays - what fun, these are.  Six shapes of penis in a plastic tray.  Honestly the trays work much better for alcohol jelly shots or chocolates molds.  We sell these plastic trays for $4.00 each - click to: www.toyzforsex.hotcircle.com/catalog/item/1966601/1383087.htm

A great 'free-idea' is to make frozen chocolate banana sticks, they look like a penis and cheap to do.  Purchase bananas then place a stick, like the one you would purchase for putting veggies on a stick for the BBQ or meat.  Place the stick into one end of the banana so it turns into a handle for the banana, then warm up regular chocolate, then dip the bananas into the chocolate and place on a cookie sheet, big enough to fit into your freezer.  Once all banana's are covered in chocolate place in the freezer overnight, at least 8 hours.  And wow a fun novelty dessert for all the girls.

A potluck is a great idea, with everyone bringing a bit of something, from sushi, veggies and dip, fruit, cheese and crackers, spinach dip, baguettes and bread, a seven layer dip. Finger food.  Another great idea for fruit is a chocolate fondue I have seen them sold in grocery stores in milk, dark or white chocolate and it is great for fruit, small finger sponge cake.  Also I went to one party where the hostess made a fruit dip from Cool Whip and a couple of shots of Bailey's Irish Cream mixed in and it was amazing.

As for cups, napkins, plates, straws etc, we can individually order in penis shaped plastic wear for you or your could just order of Bachelorette Party in a Box.   I have a few different sets on our website www.toyzforsex.com

Drinks, what to drink, a punch is the cheapest method or BYOB.  But many of the parties I have attended, it is Martini's and Cosmos, and interesting Martini's from Sour Apple, Exotic Coolers, Red Bull and Vodka. So many different varieties.

Name Tags, one of the best ideas I have ever seen is penis shape cut outs and then name everyone a rhyming name: Luscious Laska, Dirty Debby, Sexy Suzy, etc, etc.

So the Party is planned what about the Games.  Games can be fun, but they definitely need organizing. 

At the Bar Games:

Mardi Gras Bead Game - every girl has a pack of 4-6 different color beads, the object of the game is while at the bar they must get men to do different things to receive one of their necklaces.  For example, the red bead necklace is to get a lap dance from a guy, while the green necklace is for the guy who buys you a drink.  You make the list of actions for the beads, and I have seen some very risque actions, from breasts to actually full nudity.  You can purchase Beads at any Dollar Store.

The Bar Challenge Card Game for Bachelorette - this deck of cards has all the rules, and regulations for doing a fun bar challenge for you and all the girls, we sell the card pack for $10.00 each - please click to: www.toyzforsex.hotcircle.com/catalog/item/1966601/1383460.htm

Suck for a Buck T-shirt Game - this is a fun game and you can make it yourself at home.  What you need is to purchase a cheap white t-shirt.  Then get a couple of rolls of life-savers different colours, and then start sewing them all over the t-shirt.  Also before sewing on the life-savers, write in black felt pen across the chest, "Suck for a Buck".  Then at the bar, charge the guys a buck to try and get the life-saver with their mouth and teeth.  A great way to purchase drinks with the money you will receive.

Also it is so much fun for the bride-to-be to carry around a Glow in the Dark Penis Sports Bottle - click here: www.toyzforsex.hotcircle.com/catalog/item/1966601/1383479.htm

Or another great idea is to have a Blow Up Male Doll for the bride-to-be to take out with her, our gorgeous Man is available - click to:  www.toyzforsex.hotcircle.com/catalog/item/1966601/1383482.htm

At Home Games:

Pin the Penis on the Man which can be so much fun, just an adult version of Pin the Tail on the Donkey.  Many of my clients have designed their own male poster and then cut out different version of penises from the internet or magazines.  Blind-fold the guest and spin her around and then see where she places the penis.  A great game.

Clay Sculpture Contest - for you and all the girls, see who molds the best looking penis out of plaster or clay.   Ensure that each girl gets the same amount of plaster or play-dough.  The plaster is cheap in Dollar Stores or Discount Stores.  And whoever makes the best sculpture wins.

Scavenger Hunt - of course this can be done in or outside the home, make a fun scavenger hunt.  Divide the girls into two groups and see who gets all the clues to the treasure.

TP Dress Contest - of course how much fun would a Toilet Paper Bride Dress Contest would be.  Divide the girls into groups and one person per group is the model, the others are the designers of the TP dress.  The group with the best dress wins.  You must remember to purchase lots of toilet paper for this game.

Last, is Advice from the Bride-to-be Bowl, where you and the guests write on small pieces of paper, ideas, comments, suggestions about marriage, relationships, sex, etc.  Everyone places them in a bowl and the bride pulls them out and reads them out.  Then all the suggestions go into a small keepsake box.  A great idea for the bride.

Prizes and items for the Guests:

Now what would be the point of having games and activities without prizes or even goody bags for all the guests.  Some of my suggestions are as follows:

Visit my website: www.toyzforsex.com

But I can get Lube Samples, Condoms, Penis shaped necklaces, Small Vibrators, the list goes on and on so it is best to call me direct at 604-657-7840 to discuss the exact items, prizes etc you are looking for.

Last note about Bachelorette Parties - they are just suppose to be fun so enjoy yourself and ensure that everyone returns home in a safe way.